FAQ’s

Top Questions Most Often Asked Are:

Is there a delivery charge?  Yes, usually around $15, depending on where the recipient is located.
Can I get delivery today? Cut off time for same day delivery is 1 pm, sometimes we can extend that time depending on the city of delivery.

🌸 In Our Hearts Forever – Sympathy & Funeral Flowers FAQ

At In Our Hearts Forever, we understand that choosing the right flowers or sympathy gifts during a time of grief is never easy. Our goal is to guide you with compassion, grace, and clarity during this difficult moment. Below are answers to the most common questions we receive about sending sympathy and funeral flowers.

💐 1. What’s the difference between funeral flowers and sympathy flowers?

Funeral flowers are formal arrangements like sprays, wreaths, or casket covers delivered directly to the funeral home, memorial service, or cemetery. These honor the life of the deceased.
Sympathy flowers are more personal arrangements, such as vases or baskets, and are typically sent to the family’s home as a gesture of comfort and support.

🕊 2. When is the right time to send sympathy flowers?

Sympathy flowers can be sent at any time:

  • Immediately upon hearing of the loss

  • In time for the funeral or service

  • Or even a few weeks later as a gentle reminder that the family is still in your thoughts

There is no wrong time to show someone you care.

🌼 3. What are the most appropriate flowers for sympathy and funerals?

Some of the most meaningful and widely accepted flowers include:

  • Lilies – Purity and restored innocence

  • Roses – Love and remembrance

  • Carnations – Admiration and devotion

  • Chrysanthemums – Honor and mourning (especially in European and Asian traditions)

  • Gladiolus – Strength of character

We also offer custom arrangements to reflect personal connections or favorite blooms.

🌍 4. Are there cultural or religious considerations?

Yes, it’s important to be mindful of cultural or religious customs.
For example:

  • In Jewish and Islamic traditions, it’s typically not customary to send flowers.

  • Some Eastern cultures prefer white flowers, which symbolize mourning and purity.

When unsure, we encourage you to contact the family or consult our team for guidance.

✍️ 5. What should I write in a sympathy card?

A thoughtful message can bring great comfort. Consider something simple, heartfelt, and sincere:

  • “With deepest sympathy.”

  • “Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.”

  • “May their memory be a blessing.”

  • “Wishing you peace and comfort.”

If you knew the deceased, a short, fond memory or kind word adds a personal touch.

🌿 6. Is it appropriate to send flowers to a man?

Yes, absolutely. Many choose gender-neutral arrangements or plants such as peace lilies, succulents, or green gardens. Our curated sympathy selections offer respectful and comforting options for anyone, regardless of gender.

🎁 7. What are alternatives to flowers?

If you’d prefer something other than flowers, In Our Hearts Forever also offers:

  • Sympathy gift baskets

  • Memorial keepsakes (candles, wind chimes, crosses)

  • Green and blooming plants

  • Custom remembrance items

These lasting tributes can provide comfort long after the service is over.

🙏 8. What does it mean when an obituary says “in lieu of flowers”?

This usually means the family prefers donations to a charity or cause instead of receiving flowers.
However, a small gesture—like a condolence card, a plant, or a keepsake—can still be deeply appreciated and respectful.

⚰️ 9. What happens to the flowers after the funeral?

Families often take the arrangements home, distribute them among loved ones, or leave them at gravesites. Some people choose to dry or preserve a few blooms as mementos. If you’d like guidance on how to preserve flowers, our care team is happy to assist.

💗 10. How can I make my sympathy gift more personal?

Consider:

  • Including the recipient’s or deceased’s favorite flowers or colors

  • Adding a handwritten message

  • Choosing a unique arrangement or keepsake that reflects their life or passions

Let our floral experts at In Our Hearts Forever help you craft something meaningful and memorable.

We’re Here for You

Whether you’re sending your love across the miles or honoring a life close to your heart, In Our Hearts Forever is committed to offering support and beauty when it’s needed most. If you have any questions or need personal assistance, please call us at 480-572-4004 or visit our contact page.